Law of Attraction Coaching FAQ's

I will not tell your fortune, read your cards, do your numbers or advise you about love. I am not a healer. As a Spiritual Coach, I am a trained Professional Life Coach with a niche in Spiritual Development and Connection. I help you understand and work with universal principles to create more joy, more focus, better results in living the life that makes you happy. I teach you to use Law of Attraction in your life, all the time,.

2. What would you do for me as my Spiritual Coach?

Our thoughts create our reality - this is a basic law of nature called the Law of Attraction. People who know this is true, often still have difficulty seeing and understanding how they are creating their current life. We’re usually too close to our selves to be able to see ourselves objectively. As your Spiritual Coach, I will:

listen to what you say, think and take for granted and show you how those thoughts create and hold in place your current life.
guide you through exercises and processes that effectively and quickly align you (your thoughts, beliefs, and expectations) with your desires

talk with you about your understanding of the law of attraction and remove any fluff or confusion in your mind about how it works
give you a razor sharp definition to know when its working for your good ( it’s always working)
give you homework - so that you are reminded to actually do the things you say you want to do
create new habits of thought with you to align you with your desires, and check in to reinforce your progress with them
help you find that feeling inside of you so you KNOW when you are in alignment with your desire.
and celebrate with you your manifestations!

3. Who discovered this?

Well, there are two answers to this. The profession of Personal Coaching was founded by Thomas Leonard in the early 1980’s to help people have better lives, reach their goals, do what they love. There are currently around 100,000 Professional Personal Coaches in the US.

Spiritual Coaching that I do is a non-religious melding of modern science with ancient wisdom. It is based in Ageless Wisdom, sometimes called the Perennial Philosophy - those universal truths that appear as a thread through all the world’s great religions and philosophies across time and in all cultures. Aspects of these truths are now being acknowledged by leading edge thinkers in all realms of science. Did you see the movie, What the Bleep Do We Know? It is physicists talking about how we create our reality with our intention. Spiritual Coaching has evolved to help people find and live their connection.

4. Do you follow a particular guru or spiritual teacher?

No, we have no affiliation with any guru or religious group whatsoever. However, like all Professional Coaches, I have my own Coach who I speak with several times a month.

5. How did you get into this kind of work? How did you develop this program?

Through using these principles, I’ve created my life exactly as I want it and I get to do what I love each day. I asked myself what would I do if I knew I could not fail, and what is the most fun thing I can do even if I don’t get paid for it. This is it. I’m living my dream life, making my living entirely on the Internet, teaching and coaching, interacting with people who resonate with joy and curiosity. I’m free to travel anytime, taking my laptop and cell phone with me. I can work from Key West, Cancun, Greece, Hong Kong or home.

6. Who are your clients? What kinds of people get coached?

My clients tend to be Spiritually Aware, whether that be of a New Age Awareness or Christian Awareness is irrelevant - but the common denominator is our clients are aware of a higher power.

They are bright, inquisitive, committed, passionate people on a conscious spiritual path who are feeling stuck or frustrated at this point in their spiritual growth.
They are highly creative, intelligent, leading edge thinkers that have a yearning for a greater understanding
They are wanting a guide and mentor to living a life of abundance and success, a life of ease and fun, a life of living their grandest version of their greatest vision.

My clients are readers of Abraham-Hicks, Seth, Wayne Dyer, Lynn Grabhorn, Shakti Gawain, Science of Mind, Carolyn Myss, Gary Zukav, ACIM, Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson, James Redfield, Eckhart Tolle, Neale Donald Walsch, Iyanla Vanzant, Brian Weiss, Jack Canfield, Edgar Cayce, Catherine Ponder, Sanaya Roman and other contemporary teachers of the Perennial Wisdom. People who are frustrated trying to implement life changes on their own.

Candidates for coaching are success and goal oriented. Some have had very successful careers and personal lives. Others have uniquely diversified backgrounds. They may be old or young, but all of my clients are growth-oriented individuals. They bring a willingness to analyze their lives, communicate honestly and openly, and are ready and determined to grow.

7. So, is your life perfect?

Of course not. I’m human, and I’m still here. But my life unfolds, for the most part, in ease and joy. I use the spiritual laws to bring my desires to me and to meet my goals. Problems and issues still show up, but they don’t last as long, they don’t suck me into react mode and now I get above them easily. Despair, depression and helplessness are no longer a part of my life. I always know I’m creating by my emotions, so when something ugly shows up I look at how I created that, then I change it.

8. How does it work?

We will meet by telephone, with you calling me at the agreed upon time. Calls are generally scheduled for the same day and time each week, usually three weeks a month for 25-45 minutes each. Whatever we discuss is strictly confidential.

You will be supported with experiential, right-brain processes, resources, readings, and intuitive insights that will align your vibration with your desires. Your left brain intellectual curiosity will be fed through understanding how and why this works. Sometimes working in a structured way, sometimes working in a more free-flowing way, you will come to understand the principles, use the techniques, and learn to recognize when you are in alignment with your goals and when you are not. You will know how to bring yourself back in alignment to have flow and ease in your life. You will know when to take inspired action, and when action will not be effective. You will become more joyous, more centered, more focused, more effective and more connected with what you want.

9. Isn’t this just positive thinking? or like doing affirmations? I did those; it didn’t work.

Neither positive thinking nor affirmations teach you how to align your vibration with your desires so that they can flow to you effortlessly. It is difficult, if not impossible, to think positively when your reality is completely different. I show you how to stay aligned when all heck is breaking loose around you. Affirmations usually are done by rote and quickly get boring. There is a key to creating effectively; affirmations don’t give you that key - I do. Neither of these practices help you know when you are in alignment. How do you know if you are doing it right? I show you how to know.

10. Is this Different from therapy? how?

There is a 2 page answer for this - click here.

11. What Would I Talk About With A Coach?

§ What you no longer want in your life

§ What you do want to create

§ Beliefs and ideas you hold

§ Breakthroughs, wins or insights

§ Where you are stuck

§ Inspired actions for you to take

§ Your dominant mood or feeling tone

12. What is law of attraction?

Simply put, it means that “like attracts like”. Whatever you are thinking, feeling, believing is what you attract. Coaching is beneficial in discovering what you really want (really, really want!) and then overcoming any limiting beliefs that might hold you back from attracting what you want. Once your thoughts and beliefs are truly aligned then there’s no stopping the unimaginable opportunities and “synchronicities” available to you.

13. How much does it cost?

Most Professional Coaches charge fees ranging from $250 to $500 per month. My coaching fees and programs are described on my Services page and average around $350 per month, for three 45 minute calls each month. There are no other charges and clients may call or email me in between sessions if you cannot wait to share a success, need advice, have a challenge or just want to check in. I have time between our regular calls and enjoy providing this extra level of service. I accept credit and debit cards through PayPal, and I accept personal checks or money orders.

That seems like a lot of money. Why does it cost so much?

How much is self-empowerment worth? Coaching is a relationship where the total focus is on you, on what you want in your life, and on what will help you achieve it. It is time that is customized to you and only you, looking at your patterns and your paradigms. Through a co-active process of questioning, listening, clarifying, and supporting you - I help you discover your personal vision for success and overcome the obstacles and limited beliefs that keep you from taking action.

As in any profession, I have specialty training covering psychology, counseling, ministerial, and energy healing, with on-going continuing ed through workshops and seminars. Coaching is rapidly becoming a well respected profession yet coaching fees tend to be less than in therapy, counseling or consulting fields.

The average length of a coaching relationship is 12 to 18 months, or $4800 to $7200. There is nothing else with a life-long benefit that costs so little. Compare it to analysis, or a college education and see the value in defining your life.

14. How long does it take?

There is no goal. I invite you to think of coaching as a process. Many people create change for themselves in a short time. However to refine and sustain the change takes several months. Although I do not make formal time agreements with my clients, I recommend you commit to coaching for a minimum of three to six months in order to make this experience as valuable as possible. The benefits of coaching build over time.

15. Why can’t I do it myself?

Self-help often gets to be called “shelf-help" to describe the fact that most people who buy books and audio programs never actually use them. I once heard Tony Robbins say his research showed that over half the people who bought his audio programs never even opened the box! (Can you imagine!?) And, over 93% never finished the entire set. They bought a program that has helped thousands of people, but never found the time to listen to the information, not even one time. Personal coaching is geared toward those who read the books or attended the seminars and need a little help in making it useful and personal to them.

16. How would I get started?

Does the thought of living a life of Deliberate Creation answer a hunger in you? If you are ready to explore more deeply I invite you to give me a call. The first conversation is always free to see if we want to work together. I only accept clients I will enjoy. If we chose to work together, we will schedule an intro session and you will receive a Welcome Pack with information, agreement, processes, and several Self Discovery questionnaires for you to fill out and return.

17. How do I know If I'm ready for this kind of work?

If you are reading this material -- then you are, most likely, ready. It’s an ancient dictum - "When the student is ready, the teacher appears." If you feel even the slightest excitement about the possibilities then you are not here by accident. If you are not quite sure, we invite you to visit Manifestations! at www.transform-u.com. Read some of our articles and sign up for the free newsletter. Just reading through the site will give you a gift of broader awareness.

18. What tools do you recommend for me to get the most out of the program?

Read anything by the following authors: Abraham-Hicks, Seth, Wayne Dyer, Lynn Grabhorn, Shakti Gawain, Science of Mind, Carolyn Myss, Gary Zukav, ACIM, Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson, James Redfield, Eckhart Tolle, Neale Donald Walsch, Iyanla Vanzant, Brian Weiss, Jack Canfield, Edgar Cayce, Catherine Ponder, Sanaya Roman and other contemporary teachers of the Perennial Wisdom.

Read the articles in our Library on our website and subscribe to our newsletter. Start with The Basics and go on from there. Take one of our free ecourses or download a free ebook. The site will give you a gift of seeing something differently...an awareness. Just in reading, you cannot do otherwise but change. You will--because you see something differently--be differently in life.

19. How will I know if I’m ‘geting it’?

You will begin to notice more ease in your life, less angst and more synchronicity. You will feel more joy, have more intuitive flashes, feel more confident and find yourself in the flow of good things much more often.

20. Do You Have Openings Right Now?

My schedule is very flexible and while I keep a full practice, clients occasionally reschedule. Give me a call. We can talk about what you want for yourself and see if this is a fit for you. I only coach clients that I feel can benefit and are ready. Our initial conversation is always free.

A Spiritual Life Coach Is:

Someone Who Will:
~Give you direction when you seem stuck.
~Provide a different viewpoint than you yourself have.
~See the value in you that you don't see.
~Empower you to reach for what you don't think you can have
~and to be who you don't think you can become.
~Be a source of connection to who or what you need.
~See what lies in the shadow of your ego.
~Have the courage to tell you what that is.
~Be more honest to you than any friend you've ever had.
~Accept you for exactly who you are--always.
~Be an example in his/her own personal growth.
~Want more for you than you want for yourself.

What a Coach Isn’t

A Coach Is Not Someone Who Will:

~Do your life for you.
~Require anything of you that you are not willing to do for yourself.
~Provide therapy or counseling.
~Fix you--you are not broken.
~Break a confidence.
~Coach you when you are unwilling to be coached.
~Judge you as being wrong.
~Keep you as a client when you are not progressing.
~Be dishonest with you or of disservice to you.
~Buy your "act"--your excuse for not living life fully.

What’s the Bottom Line Here?

The Bottom-Line Truth About Coaching:

It isn’t about the time . . .
And it isn’t about the money.
It's only about the value it holds for you.

Coaching is a life changing process--when you are committed to life.
The real questions one must ask are:

Is my life everything I want--without change?
If not, how committed am I about changing my life?
How much is my life worth to me?

Take some time here to ponder these questions. The only real requirement we must have in coaching you, is your commitment to change. Without it, you will always have just what you have--perhaps a little more--perhaps a little less--but you will die having exactly what you have.

Coaching is one way you can have it all! Not the only way--but there is NO way without commitment!

Pretty heavy-duty. . .YES! That's the absolute beauty of it. Commitment is just a simple shift--a change of mind--to valuing your life above all.